There are a lot of reasons why men especially
white men are dating or would like to date an asian women.
Some like to rescue the girl from a poverty trap and in return one gains
loyalty and a respect that can be hard to find in the western society,
with its divorce rates going through the roof. Other men find the attraction
of dating asian women an experience into the orient. Lets face it sometimes
we are a bit fed up at home and we can find the allure of an asian women
exciting. The non age-ist attitude within reason is also is a huge attraction.
Hence many divorcees or widows look towards some asian country for their
As you can see the reason we feel attracted
to an asian women can be diverse and can come down to simply some men
find them more attractive. They are generally of slighter build, average
weights around the 40- 50kg . In western society women over 20 years dream
of this in their never ending battle of the bulge.
Do we really know why we find Asian Women attractive. Personally
I like their flawless eyes, their slim figures, their thick black hair.
Call it all superficial but if there is no initial physical attraction
the relationship is already at a tough spot. I'd suggest when looking
for Asian Women to date or an Asian Penpal then take your time. Don't
make any rash promises to the girl. Many will take you on face value and
a promise of looking after her might be taken seriously. Asian society
have a less modern outlook on relationships than we do in the west and
it is quite easy to promise a lot but on reflection we might see the difficulty
and inconvenience of living up to our promises.
The asian culture is steeped in history and custom, so different from
our own. Asian women from The Philippines though China and Indonesia have
generally grown up in what we would look upon as an old fashioned way.
Most work from the moment they can walk, rising early to help with the
house-hold duties. It's a far cry from the children in our own society
with their 'want want' atitude. The peer pressure placed on children in
Asia hasn't yet reached the heights of the west.
Many asian women also observe a devotion to a religion. Generally they
take it very seriously. This can manifest itself in the way they dress
or prepare food. A small shrine in the garden where offerings are made
to ancestors or Gods is common in a lot of asian countries. A lot of western
men love this change and though they are not required convert their own
religion, many gain benefit from its peaceful behaviour.
DATING THE LOYAL ASIAN WOMEN.
Asian Women are loyal. There is an old
saying in The Philippines "when a filipina decides she loves you
she will love you forever. She will stand by you, rich or poor and make
the best of you both." Now of course there are failed marriages there
as well as in our western countries, but the statistics are far lower
than here. Why? It's not just because of loyalty, but it's a sense of
committment and understanding that comes from a need to understand each
other and the differences in upbringing. The fight for cultural acceptance
is a fight that that will bond you, no matter what country you live in.
There will be the racist comments that you'll have to deal with. The language
barriers. The spite and glares of other women as you walk together. These
things are like a glue if you are aware. Some people have a notion that
Dating an Asian women is about dominance. This is a preposterous notion,
probably manufactured by the narrow minded bigot that we all come across
from time to time. We are quick to judge too often. On the contrary Asian
women are powerful. The Philippines has already 2 lady Presidents and
countless mayors and senators. In the home asian women generally look
after the finances if the man is not good with money. They are out spoken
and revel in the chance to speak their minds. Heaven help you if you are
on the receiving end. But generally the man is the head of the household.
There are many women in the west that wish their man was more of a man
sometimes. Of course that doesn't mean dominance, it means a sharing of
responsibility, and recognising the differences between man and women.